Day 43 - Blessing Matters!

Blessing matters, because its like the currency in the Karmic World. When you listen to many talented and fortunate people, they always describe their talents or fortune as being "blessed" to them. Blessing, as in is more sub-conscious and psychological than spiritual. Blessings balance out the gap between "giving" and "receiving".

To be blessed, is to make people happy, and when there is a mood change, you are subconsciously blessed/ cursed. The good mood change need not be through giving something, but doing something or saying something comforting. Next time you get something that you think is more than you deserve, it might be because of your "blessing", which you just recovered. So, Don't stop doing the good, because, blessing matters!....

To comfort someone only means, you getting comfortable yourself, in the inside... :)

Tell me about your experience, comforting someone... Have a nice day!

Day 40 - The Big Picture

This is something we all know and yet don't follow. On the 40th Day, I would like to remind you of the Big picture of life...

We do what we do for love and finally end up being blind of love. We hurt the ones who love us and get hurt by the ones we love, we cry for people who don't notice us and ignore the ones who would cry for us. Its with so much selfish intentions that we love, and we expect other to be selfless.

Its pretty simple... You reap what you sow. If you are caring for someone, you will surely be cared by someone too. That is how things work, call it Karma or Newtonian Theory. But, we fail to recognize this and grieve for loss and smear for profits, but in the end, all is pretty balanced.

The more care and love given out, the more we shall receive and to show it, we need some motivation. That, you will have to do daily, as a practice. Until, kindness, becomes your nature.
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Ask these questions to yourself. Why do you work/ play/ buy/ learn/ read/ write/ workout/ earn/ socialize?... A part of it is to be noticed by others and to be offered love. According to Transactional Analysis, these are called "Strokes". A person wants strokes, to keep themselves sane. Thus we act well, and if we don't receive (good)strokes, we act bad, and if we still don't receive (bad)strokes, you fall into depression.

Thus, every unpleasant act by someone, is because of the lack of (good)strokes, and understanding this, you can give lots of such "good storkes" to people you know, keeping them sane and pleasant. If the benefits of it is understood properly, then the world might be more pleasant.

 I hope, the Big picture was "re-introduced" in this post to you... Please do give me your valuable feedback on this... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 28 - "Thank you" Note!

        What is better than a simple thanks?... A surprise thanks... We have lots of people in our lives, who do us something to make our lives better and our appreciation makes them do it well. As I said, We all love to be appreciated. Write a list of people, who do good to us but we take them for granted, like our postman, our maid and the scavengers, school watchman to janitor... and yeah.. the Lunch Lady. If not an open thanks, leave a note behind, telling them how much their work is appreciated by you.

     Karma Points - 75 per Thank you note .

     Do tell me about the people whom you appreciate and to whom you have written a "Thank you" note to. Share with us their reaction to it and don't forget to update me with your Karma points.

Have a nice day... :)

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