Day 47 - Find Love and Take it!

No... not through dating sites and all that... Just the love that you can see daily... a mom taking care of her baby, a friend letting another to sleep on his shoulders... a kid sharing an ice cream with his friend... as love, unlike hate, doesn't make any noise... it sweeps through us daily, in a silent way, and we can find them more and more when we look for them... but to ease up your mind at times of hard fate... take a piece of the love you found... write about the love that you witnessed today in your journal or take a photograph of it, or draw a picture about that love you witnessed... and if you find more, then drop a coin in jar for every act of love or kindness you have seen that day... Then, you would believe in love, kindness and compassion...and you get more of it, when you give it the attention it needs... :)

Day 44 - Cleanliness for cause

 A very common saying is that "What is inside, is outside", which means that when you are good in the inside, it shows, in your style, life and almost everything. That is why, its important to keep the outside, fit and fresh, clean and glowing, for a healthier and vibrant inside.

When you find our decisions clouded and your life messed up, just look around you. Do you see things undone or out of place?. Then leave your worries behind for sometime and take up your time of worrying in doing the wrong things rite. Keep things in order, throw away the old and worthless stuff and keep vibrant and beautiful things around you.

The more beautiful , wealthy and happy things in the outside you see, makes you smile and keeps you fresh in the inside. When you start cleaning and arranging your home, room or cubicle, your clouded mind would open up and makes you feel better. The possibility of change enters your mind and gives you a sweet mood change.
 

A little demonstration to prove my point...

See these two pictures and observe them. Now observe your mind and its decisions. Seeing which do you feel happy and elated, with a clear mind set?. This is why some people are very particular on the way their home looks...






Post me a picture of your house, before and after cleaning it and tell me about your mood change after cleaning and arranging the outside, that made you feel in the inside...

Have a nice day!... :)

Day 41 - Look at yourself

Imagine a world, without mirrors, do you think you and others would look as good as now? and would be able to keep yourself presentable?... well, its a very hard task to do so. Not doing so would make all of us look undesirable, won't it?. The same goes for our behavior and conduct. Its always good to self-monitor ourselves, our actions and decisions once in a while.

Just like how we see ourselves from the "third person's view" in a mirror, we must look at our actions from the third person's view too. If there is any problem that had come, then there could be some fault on your side too. Seeing the problem from your view point alone might skew your decisions. Its always better then to see it in the other person's perspective. Walking away from the problem and seeing it afar, would give you the big picture.

Today, take some time and look at yourself from another person's view point and try to understand and accept the facts about yourself. Any problems lurking with others due to some situations?... analyze it as if you were some spectator of it and not involved in the situation...

Do write to me about the faults and problems that you found out by "looking at yourself" and how you might try to change it... Have a nice day!... :)

Day - 30 Celebrate!

         Celebrate today as you have achieved a month of "Being Good". Think and Review your life and mind and the changes in your life that you felt all this month. Its a day to feel the gratitude and a day to feel proud. Go out and enjoy the beauty of nature, feel light and feel the merry and joy of giving, because its the greatest thing.

          We know that we have a long way to go, but the initiative is to be appreciated...

So Go on.... Celebrate Compassion... Celebrate YOU!... :)

Day 17 - Start with you

A very common phenomena is that only the ones who love them, can love others, only the ones who think well of themselves can praise others, so you need to treat yourself kindly and passionately, it is only then that you can treat others the same. You need not give others what you won't give to yourself, let it be good or bad. Don't ever disregard your feelings to others, but do respect theirs. Make yourself important to you and tag yourself to be Good and Compassionate. You must make your believe that you are a Compassionate person, it is only then you can do it.

Make sure you greet yourself in the morning, tell yourself to have a good appetite and always make yourself feel special by saying " I am awesome!"... :) . So, Have a nice day ... :)