Day 41 - Look at yourself

Imagine a world, without mirrors, do you think you and others would look as good as now? and would be able to keep yourself presentable?... well, its a very hard task to do so. Not doing so would make all of us look undesirable, won't it?. The same goes for our behavior and conduct. Its always good to self-monitor ourselves, our actions and decisions once in a while.

Just like how we see ourselves from the "third person's view" in a mirror, we must look at our actions from the third person's view too. If there is any problem that had come, then there could be some fault on your side too. Seeing the problem from your view point alone might skew your decisions. Its always better then to see it in the other person's perspective. Walking away from the problem and seeing it afar, would give you the big picture.

Today, take some time and look at yourself from another person's view point and try to understand and accept the facts about yourself. Any problems lurking with others due to some situations?... analyze it as if you were some spectator of it and not involved in the situation...

Do write to me about the faults and problems that you found out by "looking at yourself" and how you might try to change it... Have a nice day!... :)