Day 48 - Be Open-Minded

Because everyone has an opinion or an idea... and so does hidden opportunities... You never know when an idea can help you out... So, Try to be open minded today and without commenting or criticizing others, just listen to what they have to say... with all the tweeting and status updates, there is no way you can slip out the opinions of others... and with more open your mind is, the wider your vision would be, and the more you'll come to understand about the people around you... Did you know the best way to bond with the people is accepting their ideology?... You don't have to appreciate their view point, but at least try to understand it... So, Be open and gain as much as you can for today...

Karma Points - 25 per new ideology/opinion you have patiently listened to...

So, Please leave your valuable feedback and tell us about the experience on being "Open Minded"...

Have an awesome day!..

Day 44 - Cleanliness for cause

 A very common saying is that "What is inside, is outside", which means that when you are good in the inside, it shows, in your style, life and almost everything. That is why, its important to keep the outside, fit and fresh, clean and glowing, for a healthier and vibrant inside.

When you find our decisions clouded and your life messed up, just look around you. Do you see things undone or out of place?. Then leave your worries behind for sometime and take up your time of worrying in doing the wrong things rite. Keep things in order, throw away the old and worthless stuff and keep vibrant and beautiful things around you.

The more beautiful , wealthy and happy things in the outside you see, makes you smile and keeps you fresh in the inside. When you start cleaning and arranging your home, room or cubicle, your clouded mind would open up and makes you feel better. The possibility of change enters your mind and gives you a sweet mood change.
 

A little demonstration to prove my point...

See these two pictures and observe them. Now observe your mind and its decisions. Seeing which do you feel happy and elated, with a clear mind set?. This is why some people are very particular on the way their home looks...






Post me a picture of your house, before and after cleaning it and tell me about your mood change after cleaning and arranging the outside, that made you feel in the inside...

Have a nice day!... :)

Day 40 - The Big Picture

This is something we all know and yet don't follow. On the 40th Day, I would like to remind you of the Big picture of life...

We do what we do for love and finally end up being blind of love. We hurt the ones who love us and get hurt by the ones we love, we cry for people who don't notice us and ignore the ones who would cry for us. Its with so much selfish intentions that we love, and we expect other to be selfless.

Its pretty simple... You reap what you sow. If you are caring for someone, you will surely be cared by someone too. That is how things work, call it Karma or Newtonian Theory. But, we fail to recognize this and grieve for loss and smear for profits, but in the end, all is pretty balanced.

The more care and love given out, the more we shall receive and to show it, we need some motivation. That, you will have to do daily, as a practice. Until, kindness, becomes your nature.
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Ask these questions to yourself. Why do you work/ play/ buy/ learn/ read/ write/ workout/ earn/ socialize?... A part of it is to be noticed by others and to be offered love. According to Transactional Analysis, these are called "Strokes". A person wants strokes, to keep themselves sane. Thus we act well, and if we don't receive (good)strokes, we act bad, and if we still don't receive (bad)strokes, you fall into depression.

Thus, every unpleasant act by someone, is because of the lack of (good)strokes, and understanding this, you can give lots of such "good storkes" to people you know, keeping them sane and pleasant. If the benefits of it is understood properly, then the world might be more pleasant.

 I hope, the Big picture was "re-introduced" in this post to you... Please do give me your valuable feedback on this... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 36 - New Year Resolution!

New Year Resolution is one thing we love to keep, and I have some suggestions for you...

First... Make sure you have a peek of this blog everyday, or at least once a week...
Second...Try to do at least one act of compassion every day
Third...Try to gain a minimum of 50 Karma Points a day
Fourth...Try to think of something that you are thankful for and show gratitude
Fifth...To try to have a cheerful self on every situation possible...

As a New Year Gift from me, I would like to suggest you a new web site, which seems to have a good idea, and you might be interested... www.revelri.com - High On Happiness

Happy a Great 2012! ... :)

Day 34 - Watch and learn!

A picture is worth a thousand words and a video is worth more, so watch this video and learn....

 Well the video shows us about a "Chain of Compassion" or "Chain Act of Kindness"... It shows how when one person takes an initiative to make the world a better place...it spreads and makes a chain reaction of kindness... Do watch the video and share it on your FB page and Tweet about it... Thanks for watching...

Karma Points -  20 for sharing the video... :)

And also don't forget to like the page... https://www.facebook.com/lifevestinside

Karma Points -  20 for liking the page

Have a nice day...

Day 33 - Make a Friend

A Friend in need is a friend indeed... You never know when a good friend could come in handy. We all have someone who would love to have a new friend. Don't feel shy, just give a hand shake and a warm smile. Don't Judge, but accept. Your acceptance might open doors for a great friendship. Its a great feeling to make a good friend... Take an initiative...

Karma Points - 50 per friend

Share with us about your new friend and keep up the good work. Don't forget to drop your Karma point counts in the comment box.

Have a Nice day... 

Day 16 - Take Initiative

Your initiative to do good would make a difference. Accept that you might not get good in return. Most of the people who don't take initiative often, always expect something in return.When they don't get anything in return, they get disappointed and stop taking initiative. Some of them do good only if the other person has already done something for them. So, you need to accept the fact that "good" would come to you, but not from the same source. When you take the initiative, you become the "Influencing" and not the "Influenced", You become "Proactive" and not "Reactive". You take control of your own life. May be, Being Compassionate has more in return than you think, huh?...