Day 48 - Be Open-Minded

Because everyone has an opinion or an idea... and so does hidden opportunities... You never know when an idea can help you out... So, Try to be open minded today and without commenting or criticizing others, just listen to what they have to say... with all the tweeting and status updates, there is no way you can slip out the opinions of others... and with more open your mind is, the wider your vision would be, and the more you'll come to understand about the people around you... Did you know the best way to bond with the people is accepting their ideology?... You don't have to appreciate their view point, but at least try to understand it... So, Be open and gain as much as you can for today...

Karma Points - 25 per new ideology/opinion you have patiently listened to...

So, Please leave your valuable feedback and tell us about the experience on being "Open Minded"...

Have an awesome day!..

Day 45 - Get to know!

Get to know more about the people who are with you. Try to know about something about them, good and precious and something that they would like share with you. All of us like to open up and feel free with our people. The reason they don't is, mostly, we are not interested about them or feel its not important. But, its good to give others a little priority. Be it your children, friend, colleague or neighbor. Ask them about their fond memories or their interests and get to know them more.

Make sure you are genuinely interested and don't judge or give them any advice. Just get to know. Its always good to know more about the people you live with.Who knows?, you might find someone really interesting or something that interests you...

Karma Points - 50 per person.

Tell me about your experiences on "Getting to know" someone.... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 42 - Resolve!

Resolve your petty problems, now!.... There are some very petty issues which stop us from being close to someone. We might have stopped talking with someone, for an issue which turns out to be of no big deal now. Forgive them, if it were their fault and forgive yourself first if the fault is yours by looking at yourself.

You might be missing the company of some very good people, because of the small misunderstanding. Take some time and resolve the problem for good. Don't get carried away with hatred or anger. The sole idea must be to resolve the problem and not grow it.

If they were your high school friends, or college friends, then give a call and inquire. If they work with you, or your neighbor, family members then talk to them in person. In the end, its the people you made happy that counts... its better to live with five good friends than fifty enemies...isn't it?

Karma points- 100 per petty issue solved.

Tell me about how you resolved any petty issues and how you felt about it... Have a nice day!

Day 41 - Look at yourself

Imagine a world, without mirrors, do you think you and others would look as good as now? and would be able to keep yourself presentable?... well, its a very hard task to do so. Not doing so would make all of us look undesirable, won't it?. The same goes for our behavior and conduct. Its always good to self-monitor ourselves, our actions and decisions once in a while.

Just like how we see ourselves from the "third person's view" in a mirror, we must look at our actions from the third person's view too. If there is any problem that had come, then there could be some fault on your side too. Seeing the problem from your view point alone might skew your decisions. Its always better then to see it in the other person's perspective. Walking away from the problem and seeing it afar, would give you the big picture.

Today, take some time and look at yourself from another person's view point and try to understand and accept the facts about yourself. Any problems lurking with others due to some situations?... analyze it as if you were some spectator of it and not involved in the situation...

Do write to me about the faults and problems that you found out by "looking at yourself" and how you might try to change it... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 38 - Thought Matters!

At one point its only thought that matters. Send some positive thoughts out to your loved ones. Let them be  near you or far away. A thought would definitely send a wave of enthusiasm over them, bringing them a new profound joy. As the Karma works, you might be in their thoughts too. When you feel lonely, or on the contrary, full of love, send some love to others. Think of them, and send your postive thoughts as thoughts can reach any where is split seconds...

Karma Points - 10 per thought ... 

Well, I am sending some positive energy to the readers and followers rite now...

Have a Great Day!...

Day 20 - Behave!

Behave the way you would like others to behave with you. All of us like to be handled politely, none of us like to be controlled. Most of us don't like rude people, rude comments or being mocked at. But, we find it alright when the other person is being treated bad!. The only way to stand up against this is to show them, inspire them. Talk to your maid, waiter, chauffeur thinking from their angle, putting yourself in their shoes. " If I were him, will I love/ respect / look up to this person (you), if he talks/ behaves this way?"...I am sure that compassion will grow in you ... This is something only humans can do... which is to empathize... Go on, show that your different from any animal... 

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