Day 48 - Be Open-Minded

Because everyone has an opinion or an idea... and so does hidden opportunities... You never know when an idea can help you out... So, Try to be open minded today and without commenting or criticizing others, just listen to what they have to say... with all the tweeting and status updates, there is no way you can slip out the opinions of others... and with more open your mind is, the wider your vision would be, and the more you'll come to understand about the people around you... Did you know the best way to bond with the people is accepting their ideology?... You don't have to appreciate their view point, but at least try to understand it... So, Be open and gain as much as you can for today...

Karma Points - 25 per new ideology/opinion you have patiently listened to...

So, Please leave your valuable feedback and tell us about the experience on being "Open Minded"...

Have an awesome day!..

Day 44 - Cleanliness for cause

 A very common saying is that "What is inside, is outside", which means that when you are good in the inside, it shows, in your style, life and almost everything. That is why, its important to keep the outside, fit and fresh, clean and glowing, for a healthier and vibrant inside.

When you find our decisions clouded and your life messed up, just look around you. Do you see things undone or out of place?. Then leave your worries behind for sometime and take up your time of worrying in doing the wrong things rite. Keep things in order, throw away the old and worthless stuff and keep vibrant and beautiful things around you.

The more beautiful , wealthy and happy things in the outside you see, makes you smile and keeps you fresh in the inside. When you start cleaning and arranging your home, room or cubicle, your clouded mind would open up and makes you feel better. The possibility of change enters your mind and gives you a sweet mood change.
 

A little demonstration to prove my point...

See these two pictures and observe them. Now observe your mind and its decisions. Seeing which do you feel happy and elated, with a clear mind set?. This is why some people are very particular on the way their home looks...






Post me a picture of your house, before and after cleaning it and tell me about your mood change after cleaning and arranging the outside, that made you feel in the inside...

Have a nice day!... :)

Day 42 - Resolve!

Resolve your petty problems, now!.... There are some very petty issues which stop us from being close to someone. We might have stopped talking with someone, for an issue which turns out to be of no big deal now. Forgive them, if it were their fault and forgive yourself first if the fault is yours by looking at yourself.

You might be missing the company of some very good people, because of the small misunderstanding. Take some time and resolve the problem for good. Don't get carried away with hatred or anger. The sole idea must be to resolve the problem and not grow it.

If they were your high school friends, or college friends, then give a call and inquire. If they work with you, or your neighbor, family members then talk to them in person. In the end, its the people you made happy that counts... its better to live with five good friends than fifty enemies...isn't it?

Karma points- 100 per petty issue solved.

Tell me about how you resolved any petty issues and how you felt about it... Have a nice day!

Day 40 - The Big Picture

This is something we all know and yet don't follow. On the 40th Day, I would like to remind you of the Big picture of life...

We do what we do for love and finally end up being blind of love. We hurt the ones who love us and get hurt by the ones we love, we cry for people who don't notice us and ignore the ones who would cry for us. Its with so much selfish intentions that we love, and we expect other to be selfless.

Its pretty simple... You reap what you sow. If you are caring for someone, you will surely be cared by someone too. That is how things work, call it Karma or Newtonian Theory. But, we fail to recognize this and grieve for loss and smear for profits, but in the end, all is pretty balanced.

The more care and love given out, the more we shall receive and to show it, we need some motivation. That, you will have to do daily, as a practice. Until, kindness, becomes your nature.
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Ask these questions to yourself. Why do you work/ play/ buy/ learn/ read/ write/ workout/ earn/ socialize?... A part of it is to be noticed by others and to be offered love. According to Transactional Analysis, these are called "Strokes". A person wants strokes, to keep themselves sane. Thus we act well, and if we don't receive (good)strokes, we act bad, and if we still don't receive (bad)strokes, you fall into depression.

Thus, every unpleasant act by someone, is because of the lack of (good)strokes, and understanding this, you can give lots of such "good storkes" to people you know, keeping them sane and pleasant. If the benefits of it is understood properly, then the world might be more pleasant.

 I hope, the Big picture was "re-introduced" in this post to you... Please do give me your valuable feedback on this... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 37 - Say Yes!

Be a "Yes" man and there is a lot that you can achieve. When a person says "no" for all the help that he could do, he is missing out oppurtunities of being needed. In the end, isn't it all that we need?... to be needed for!... But, we tend to forget the big picture and stop being there for others and making ourselves obselete. When you say yes, you learn a lot too and you would definitely get something in return, as that's how Karma roles.

When you are asked a favor and you cannot do it, instead of abruptly saying no and putting a stop, say yes and try what you can do. Atleast give a fair chance of trail, or give a solution to the problem. If not for anything, people might come to you, just for the suggestion that you might give...

Day 36 - New Year Resolution!

New Year Resolution is one thing we love to keep, and I have some suggestions for you...

First... Make sure you have a peek of this blog everyday, or at least once a week...
Second...Try to do at least one act of compassion every day
Third...Try to gain a minimum of 50 Karma Points a day
Fourth...Try to think of something that you are thankful for and show gratitude
Fifth...To try to have a cheerful self on every situation possible...

As a New Year Gift from me, I would like to suggest you a new web site, which seems to have a good idea, and you might be interested... www.revelri.com - High On Happiness

Happy a Great 2012! ... :)

Day 35 - Focus on Speciality!

Like Doctors, you can specialize in "helping" too... Just as people sought out for doctors who specialize, people will come to you for specialty. We all have something in abundance that we can give others, our talents can bring happiness and well being. Some are good at sports, some have good influence and some have that extra pocket money. By giving what you have in abundance, you can receive various things, making yourself self sustainable.

Karma Quote: You don't need super powers to help others... Just a thought and some initiative....

Have a nice day.... keep your Karma points counting up....

Don't forget to drop in a comment or a feedback... Thanks for reading.... :)

Day - 30 Celebrate!

         Celebrate today as you have achieved a month of "Being Good". Think and Review your life and mind and the changes in your life that you felt all this month. Its a day to feel the gratitude and a day to feel proud. Go out and enjoy the beauty of nature, feel light and feel the merry and joy of giving, because its the greatest thing.

          We know that we have a long way to go, but the initiative is to be appreciated...

So Go on.... Celebrate Compassion... Celebrate YOU!... :)

Day 17 - Start with you

A very common phenomena is that only the ones who love them, can love others, only the ones who think well of themselves can praise others, so you need to treat yourself kindly and passionately, it is only then that you can treat others the same. You need not give others what you won't give to yourself, let it be good or bad. Don't ever disregard your feelings to others, but do respect theirs. Make yourself important to you and tag yourself to be Good and Compassionate. You must make your believe that you are a Compassionate person, it is only then you can do it.

Make sure you greet yourself in the morning, tell yourself to have a good appetite and always make yourself feel special by saying " I am awesome!"... :) . So, Have a nice day ... :)