Day 40 - The Big Picture

This is something we all know and yet don't follow. On the 40th Day, I would like to remind you of the Big picture of life...

We do what we do for love and finally end up being blind of love. We hurt the ones who love us and get hurt by the ones we love, we cry for people who don't notice us and ignore the ones who would cry for us. Its with so much selfish intentions that we love, and we expect other to be selfless.

Its pretty simple... You reap what you sow. If you are caring for someone, you will surely be cared by someone too. That is how things work, call it Karma or Newtonian Theory. But, we fail to recognize this and grieve for loss and smear for profits, but in the end, all is pretty balanced.

The more care and love given out, the more we shall receive and to show it, we need some motivation. That, you will have to do daily, as a practice. Until, kindness, becomes your nature.
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Ask these questions to yourself. Why do you work/ play/ buy/ learn/ read/ write/ workout/ earn/ socialize?... A part of it is to be noticed by others and to be offered love. According to Transactional Analysis, these are called "Strokes". A person wants strokes, to keep themselves sane. Thus we act well, and if we don't receive (good)strokes, we act bad, and if we still don't receive (bad)strokes, you fall into depression.

Thus, every unpleasant act by someone, is because of the lack of (good)strokes, and understanding this, you can give lots of such "good storkes" to people you know, keeping them sane and pleasant. If the benefits of it is understood properly, then the world might be more pleasant.

 I hope, the Big picture was "re-introduced" in this post to you... Please do give me your valuable feedback on this... Have a nice day!... :)

Day 19 - Give back

Give back to get more... Goodness!. Try to recall the people from the "Remember List" ( Refer previous posts ) and try to give them back the goodness and the love. Give it back to them with lots of Gratitude as what they have given has helped you in some way or the other. Give back and I am sure that you'll get back lots more. Won't you re-invest if a bank had given you back the amount with lots of interest?. Its not the same case if the bank doesn't return your money, rite?. So, What are you waiting for?. . . Go see the list and think of a way to give them back,... at least the thought counts... and the more you give back, the better you would feel...

Do write to me about what you have given back and to whom, and what they felt about it . Share with us, the whole experience and inspire others to do the same... Have a nice day... :)